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Why it’s important – and safe – to go to the pediatrician during the pandemic
By Lily J. Lou, MD, FAAP
Our world has been utterly transformed by COVID-19 but we are still here, trying to find a new normal and live our lives as best we can in the face of the pandemic. We’ve put a lot of things on hold for the past few months, but it’s important to get back to some essential activities that keep us healthy and safe. Keeping up with your child’s pediatrician is one of those.
Wouldn’t it be crazy to go to the doctor now, with COVID-19 going around?
Absolutely not! Pediatricians do many things to keep our kids healthy and safe. One of the things that comes immediately to mind is staying up to date on immunizations. We see what COVID-19 — an infectious disease without a vaccine or good treatments — is doing to our country; the last thing we want is an epidemic of measles, diphtheria, hepatitis, or any of the other terrible diseases for which we do have vaccines, just because we’ve fallen behind in going to the doctor to keep on schedule with routine immunizations!
During the pandemic, Alaska has seen an alarming decrease in the number of vaccines given. We’re improving a little, but we need to correct this trend or we’ll lose the herd immunity that has protected us for many years. It will also be crucial that we get our flu vaccines this fall — who knows what the combination of COVID-19 and influenza will do!
Pediatricians also screen for many conditions that are treatable if they’re picked up early. These can include physical or mental health issues. Routine screening is important in navigating the process of normal growth and development; it also picks up on children falling behind in key milestones. Children are amazingly resilient and generally respond well to treatments that are started before problems progress too far. Developmental delays can often be ameliorated with early intervention.
What are pediatricians doing to make sure it’s safe to come into the office?
Pediatricians have put a lot of thought into how they can minimize risks of exposure so children can be seen in ways that keep them safe. Some now have separate entrances for sick and well patients. Some only see well patients in the mornings and ill children in the afternoons. Some practices have designated a few doctors and staff to only take care of well visits and immunizations, while different ones care for children with symptoms. Some pediatricians will come out to your car to provide care to maintain safe physical distancing. Most offices have options for telehealth visits, but some needs (like immunizations) do require being seen in person. Tips are available to get the most out of a telehealth visit.
Call your own pediatrician to see how things have changed and to make an appointment to keep up with important health care for your children.
A few words about masks
Wearing a cloth mask has been shown to be protective — as part of a community bundle that also includes physical distancing, good hand hygiene, avoiding crowds, and a system of testing and contact tracing that allows focused isolation rather than universal stay-at-home orders. This is the way we can start to resume some of our interactions.
Masks are generally safe, except for very few exceptions. They do not decrease oxygen levels or cause your carbon dioxide levels to go up. Children under 2 years of age should not be masked. Nor should people with severe baseline breathing problems, those with developmental disabilities that make them unable to tolerate a mask or remove it in an emergency, or some with severe sensory intolerances. Most children with asthma can safely wear a mask unless their disease is severe, requiring frequent emergency treatment or hospitalization. COVID-19 and mask wearing are good reminders of the importance of getting asthma under control — another reason to visit the pediatrician.
Masks with fun designs, practicing wearing a mask properly, education about mask effectiveness and safety, and role modeling by parents and other respected adults will help children with this new habit.
Stay safe and call your pediatrician!
Please follow common sense in the precautions you and your family take to avoid getting sick in the pandemic. Know that it is safe to go to the doctor and keep up with the routine care that keeps us healthy. Make it part of your new normal to call your pediatrician!
Lily J. Lou, MD, FAAP, is a pediatrician/neonatologist in Anchorage, and past president of the Alaska Chapter of the American Academy of Pediatrics.
Alaska Children’s Trust was fortunate to benefit from the skills and efforts of two talented summer interns: Aqpaluk Elizabeth G. Ahkivgak and Ethan King.
Elizabeth was born in Anchorage and raised in Barrow. She is attending Penn State University, where she is working toward degrees in accounting and energy and sustainability policy. After graduating, she will consider becoming a tax-focused CPA or applying to law school. “I want to use these kinds of technical skills to serve communities through funneling resources to marginalized people. My dream job would allow me to give back to the communities that collectively raised me through public programs. I want to be a tool for good causes,” Elizabeth says.
“Working for Alaska Children’s Trust this summer has been such a cathartic experience,” Elizabeth shares. “They and nonprofits alike are leading the way in diversity and inclusion. I was able to see how their nonprofit network cooperates to alleviate overhead administrative expenses; I found this to be resourceful. I appreciated the insight Alaska Children’s Trust illustrated on the transfer of public funds and how their grant streams truly serve children directly through community resources that combat child abuse and neglect. They connected me with other nonprofit directors for grant writing mentorship, supported my passion for volunteering, and encouraged me every day!”
In her free time, Elizabeth enjoys hiking, camping, fishing, box gardening, skiing, painting, beading, speaking Inupiaq, writing, and volunteering in the community.
Ethan was born and raised in Anchorage, and is currently a student at West High School. “I am looking forward to going to college in a couple years,” he says. “I would like to study abroad at some point, and find a profession that allows me to use my imagination as well as what I learn in school.”
“The thing I most enjoyed most during my time at Alaska Children’s Trust was working with and learning from the wonderful staff. It was truly a pleasure,” Ethan shares. “There was so much I learned over the last month. I learned a lot about operating in an office environment. I also learned how to use Excel and methods for archiving. If I had to pick one thing that really stood out to me, it would be the ways a nonprofit can really have a profound impact through targeted grants.”
Among Ethan’s interests are cross country skiing, hiking, computer games, and travel.
They join our 13 other board members, who each selflessly dedicate their time and talents to helping us work toward our mission to prevent child abuse and neglect in all corners of Alaska.
Public Member, Anchorage
Margo Bellamy is a retired educator and adjunct professor at the University of Alaska Anchorage. Margo was elected to the Anchorage School Board in April 2019. Her position on the Anchorage School Board is influenced by her vast experience in education ,which spans over 40 years.
Prior to retiring in July 2016, Margo served as the executive director of the Compliance/Equal Employment Opportunity Office in the Anchorage School District. Her experience and leadership in education also includes being a teacher, librarian, assistant principal, principal and central office administrator.
Providence Alaska Foundation, Anchorage
A lifelong Alaskan, Suzanne was born and raised in Palmer and joined Providence in 2001. As president of Providence Alaska Foundation, Suzanne is responsible for philanthropic and grants development and operations for Providence in Alaska. She is also the regional chief philanthropy officer for Providence Health & Services Alaska.
Prior to joining Providence, Suzanne worked in the telecommunication’s industry in various operations and marketing leadership roles. She earned her Bachelor of Business Administration and Management from Alaska Pacific University and has maintained her CFRE (Certified Fund Raising Executive) accreditation since 2007.
Suzanne has served her community through Rotary, the YWCA board of Directors and is currently on the Alaska Children’s Alliance board and The Foraker Group operations board. She is also honored to be a previous recipient of Alaska’s Top Forty Under 40.
Public Member, Anchorage
Reggie has a variety of experiences, from sitting on local Alaska Native corporations’ boards to the local school board. He served on a statewide advisory board on alcoholism and drug abuse, the Fish and Game advisory board, and several others.
Reggie, an Inupiat man from Kotzebue, Alaska, has lived a lifetime in Alaska’s Arctic.
Reggie also worked as a recruiter and counselor for a post-secondary technical vocational school in Kotzebue and served in the Alaska State Legislature for 16 consecutive years. Recently, he also served a three-year term as the mayor of the Northwest Arctic Borough. Most recently, Reggie served on the President’s State Local and Tribal Leaders Task Force on Climate Preparedness and Resilience; he was one of two Indigenous people across America appointed by President Obama to this role.
By Julia Martinez, VP Philanthropy & External Affairs and Casey Martinez
I’ve just noticed that July 26 is National Parents’ Day. Funny, I never really thought about the day too much, but this year is different in so many ways. It seems like the right time to share some with you about what it has meant to be a parent – your parent.
Parents’ Day promotes responsible parenting … and recognizes positive parental role models. Wow, that is a tall order! It’s a nice idea to celebrate parents and their roles, but the truth of the matter is parenting is much more than one day. It is a big and difficult job that never really goes away. I used to think it did. I used to think that once you and your siblings reached adulthood I’d be done, but I know now that is not true. Instead, it has evolved – from caring for your every need as an infant to offering support as you navigate adulthood. And I’m glad for this – being your parent has only grown in meaning and fulfillment, even with the ups and downs, as you became an adult.
Responsible parenting. Another wow. I’d hate to claim, and you’d probably agree, that I was 100% responsible as your parent. Life has its challenges and people are imperfect even when we try. Stresses in life happen and life is seldom fair. For me, I can say I tried and cared and wanted to be responsible, but then again – this is a tall order. My parenting had hardships but to a much less degree than so many in our communities and state. I admire and respect the many other parents who are parenting with difficulties like unemployment, food insecurity, substance misuse and difficult home situations. My hope is, as an adult, you can forgive me for mistakes and use them to be resilient and better able to make a difference to a child you will influence one day. I remember when I forgave my parents for mistakes and imperfections I understood only as an adult. I wish the same for you.
The special bond between parent and child.Oh, I can speak to that. Perhaps one day you will choose to be a parent, or an influencer in a child’s life, and assume this most marvelous role. I’ve learned the best things in life are those you work the hardest for – and parenting is hard. As I reflect, here are some nuggets of truth to help you and other parents out there:
Everyone is a parent for the first time; you only know what you know.
Parenting is the great experiment of life; an experiment with great joy yet great responsibility.
Parenting is as difficult as it seems; but I would not trade it for the world.
Life is not fair; not all parents have the same tools and supports they need to nurture to the extent they would like; be kind, compassionate and help others.
We make mistakes with varying consequences; we should amend, learn and ask for forgiveness.
Parents were once children, who can reflect and grow in their own understanding of their parents as people, and forgive their parents too.
I hope my sharing has been useful to you as you face the evolving role of adult/parent relationships. Happy National Parents’ Day, Casey.
I’ve just noticed that July 26 is National Parents’ Day. Funny, I never really thought about the day too much, but this year is different in so many ways. It seems like the right time to share some thoughts with you now that I am an adult – and you were my parent.
First, I just caught myself saying “were my parent.” I realize now parenting is forever, a club you join and never leave. Even though I am an adult now, you can’t help but parent me, but hopefully in a new way that allows space, acceptance and unconditional love. I make mistakes, but know they are mine to make. Though hard to admit, I was listening, learning and leaning on you to guide me. Growing up, your words of wisdom were hallowed when I was young, rejected when I was a teen, and now, as an adult, reflected upon for at least consideration as I make my own way. I’m not perfect, but it’s my responsibility to make my way.
At some point, I realized childhood can be portioned in two phases. First, the years when you were my whole world and I relied on you the most. It could be called the “honeymoon” stage, where a mother or father can do no wrong. You were perfect to me. I remember it so clearly! My brave, giving mother. I remember you cared for me, participated in my life, making things better. I was protected and felt loved. There were stresses and pressures in your life that I felt protected from, but I also know family challenges and stresses do impact everyone; no one is immune. But I was mostly unaware, though consequences can be real. I realize raising a family can be very hard, especially if there are additional challenges like lack of finances, dysfunctional relationships and more.
You were not perfect. As I grew up, the imperfect details of our family life and relationships came to light. You were a mother working full-time and raising four children, and not in an easy environment. I started to see my parents as flawed humans. It was hard to accept and forgiveness did not happen overnight. It wasn’t until my adulthood where I could look you in the eye and know you did the best you could with circumstances and the information you had. And I am one of the lucky ones. As an adult, I see the challenges that so many families face, especially here in Alaska. While our family faced stresses, we always had a steady source of food, a warm bed and lively, yet stable family life. I can see how parenting can be oh so much more difficult than what I experienced. I hope parenting will be a joy to me and a joy as it should be to every family, and that the stresses and pressures that challenge families would be no more.
Our relationship has certainly changed as I’ve become an adult; and I think for the better. I know and accept the truer version of you, a beautifully imperfect role model and mother. Happy National Parents’ Day, Mom.
No matter how the world changes, and time passes, the relationship between a parent and a child can continue to endure and evolve.
Julia and Casey participating in a Pride cycle in a safe, socially distanced way. (2020)
“My relationship with my daughter wouldn’t be the same without it”
Spring 2019 was an exciting time for Pili Queja. He and his wife, Reanne, found out last February that they were expecting their first baby. Shortly after, Pili received a job offer from Alaska Children’s Trust as the program specialist with the Alaska Afterschool Network.
Among all the preparations that go into getting ready to welcome a new baby, Pili and his wife, both of whom were working full-time jobs, had to figure out how they would balance caring for their newborn while providing for their family.
At the time Pili started his new job, ACT did not have a paid family leave policy, and since he was such a new employee, he would not have much personal time saved up before his daughter’s arrival. And with all the expenses that come with having a baby, he preferred not to take unpaid leave. At the same time, being home to support his wife and help care for and bond with his daughter was a top priority.
“It was our first baby and I didn’t know what that would look like. What would I need to do to support my wife? How do I take care of my family and be present and fulfill my job? It was a stressful situation,” Pili shared.
A conversation with ACT early in his employment quickly got the ball rolling on the development of a paid family leave policy. Several months before his daughter’s birth, the new policy was in place, offering new mothers and fathers two weeks of paid leave, plus the ability for co-workers to donate their leave time to the new parent. Under the new policy, Pili received six weeks of paid family leave, including four weeks that were generously donated by his co-workers.
“It was amazing,” he said.
The knowledge that he had the time to care for his family was a relief, especially when Pili and Reanne’s birth plan went awry, with their daughter – Shiloh’Grace “Maluhia” – arriving two weeks early via c-section.
“I didn’t understand what went into recovering from a c-section. I can’t imagine having to leave my family and go back to work right away,” Pili said.
“Emotionally having the ability to be present with my family made me feel like I was being a good dad – while I was figuring out what that meant. There was no manual. We were learning by the hour how to work with her and we were growing together as parents. We had to learn how to feed her, learn her cries, her sleep schedule, how to burp her at 3 a.m. Going back to work in that time would have been crazy,” he continued. “My being able to be home was a huge support to our family.”
Among Pili’s most precious moments with his daughter were the nighttime feedings – something he would not have been able to help with if he had returned to work shortly after her birth. “Some of our best bonding time was late at night, feeding,” he recalled.
ACT’s family-friendly approach didn’t end with the new paid family leave policy. After Pili returned to work in early December, he was able to bring his daughter to work with him for the first six months. His wife’s employer also welcomes babies in the office for six months.
“Between the two of us, we both returned to work without needing to put our daughter in child care. She’s 6 months old and has never been to child care,” Pili said. “Our work family has seen her grow up.”
In the office, Pili felt very supported by both his employer and his co-workers. They put in a changing table so he didn’t have to change his daughter’s diapers on the office floor. They gave him a pack ‘n play as a baby shower gift so Maluhia could nap in his office. Co-workers offered to watch the baby when Pili had a meeting or phone call. And Pili’s officemate didn’t mind when Pili closed the door and played boy-band lullabies to get Maluhia to sleep.
“Knowing I was supported by my workplace was huge. They are sensitive to what families are going through, and want to help, not add stress,” Pili said. “My coworkers were always happy to see her and happy to help. I never felt like my having a baby was an inconvenience.”
Combined, the time at home after Maluhia’s arrival and the time with her in the office was a game-changer for Pili.
“My relationship with my daughter wouldn’t be the same without it,” he said.
Families are likely going to be celebrating Mother’s Day a little differently this year, as the COVID-19 pandemic continues to affect nearly every aspect of our lives. In recognition of Mother’s Day, we spoke with several different moms, who provided their diverse perspectives on handling the changes in work and family life brought on by COVID-19 – and shared their advice and encouragement for other families.
Anna: “You don’t need to be super mom”
Like everyone, life has changed a lot since the pandemic for Anna McGovern, her husband, Mike, and their 19-month-old son, Nolan.
Anna, a program specialist with the Alaska Afterschool Network, has been working at home since late March. As their day care has been closed due to COVID-19, Nolan is his mom’s new co-worker. “It’s impossible working with a toddler,” she laughs. “He gets into everything and loves to touch my computer.”
As a juvenile probation officer, Anna’s husband, Mike, has continued going into work for the most part, with some remote work from home. This means Anna works around Nolan’s naptime, as well as in the evenings when her husband is home.
“It’s hard to spend all day with the baby, then work until 9 or 10 at night. I’m fortunate that my work is flexible, but it is tiring,” Anna says.
With no day care, library or play dates, Anna and Nolan fill their days with car rides, going outside, FaceTime with friends and family – and lots of walks. “The dog is getting pretty tired of walks. She’s thinking, ‘You’ve never walked me so much!’” Anna says.
Keeping a schedule is one way the family strives to maintain normalcy. Two things Anna makes sure are on the daily schedule: eating dinner together and working out.
“We try to make a point to sit down for dinner all together. We make it a priority and meals together is one thing we’ve really stuck to,” Anna says. “I also try to work out every day, even when I don’t want to. The easiest way to lower stress is to break a sweat for 20 minutes.”
Writing a list of daily goals and jotting down things she is grateful for are other self-care techniques that are helping Anna navigate these strange days.
“There is something about crossing things off a list, even if it’s ‘drink 100 ounces of water a day.’ It’s something I can control in a time when I can’t control anything. That’s really helped,” Anna explains. “Also writing down what I’m grateful for, any little thing that is good. When I get in a mood, I can go back and read it and remind myself that there are still a lot of positive things even though a lot of craziness is going on.”
One thing Anna is grateful for is the extra time she is getting to spend with her son. “At this age especially, they change so fast and learn so quick. It’s fun to experience. Also, I don’t have to choose between being a stay-at-home mom or working. I’m doing both; there is no pressure to be one or the other.”
Anna’s advice for other mothers juggling work, family and the anxiety of these uncertain times? “You don’t need to be super mom,” she says. “It’s a weird time right now. It’s OK to just be an OK parent.”
Diane: “Everyone else is in the same boat”
Before COVID-19 made its entrance in Alaska, Diane Heaney-Mead spent her days working at her architecture office in downtown Anchorage, while her wife, Colleen, ran a home day care for children including their own: Imogen, 1, and Alistair, 3.
Fast-forward several weeks and Diane has been shuffling her work between her daughter’s bedroom to the dining table and back between naps. Meanwhile, Colleen chose to discontinue her business due to social distancing requirements and to protect their son, who is easily affected by respiratory illnesses.
“I often end up working late both because spring is a busy time of year and because I find myself trying to help out with kids during the day,” Diane says. “And our kids have a hard time understanding why we can’t hang out with friends, go out to restaurants or places like the museum.”
Even with all the changes, the family has been adjusting fairly well, which Diane credits to keeping a schedule and setting work/family-time boundaries. “We are trying to keep a pretty similar routine, no hanging out in PJs or watching TV. The kids go for a walk in the morning about the same time each day, and my wife is still providing circle time for our kids,” she says.
“I give everyone a hug and a kiss before I ‘go to work’ in the bedroom and try to be clear about when it is work time and when it is not. I also try to be flexible based on their needs each day,” she adds.
While things are going pretty smoothly, there have been some tough days. “The first week we stayed home, there was a string of gun violence,” Diane explains, recalling a car chase with someone shooting an assault-style weapon out the window, and a separate incident with someone walking down the street shooting a handgun. “It was completely bizarre and not typical for our street.”
The silver lining was that it brought the neighbors together. A Facebook group was established so neighbors could connect and share information. Several people created neighborhood walks with themes like Halloween and space. And Diane and Colleen lent sleds to a nearby mom so she could tire out her active kids. “I don’t know that we would have connected as well unless we had all been home like this,” Diane says.
Spending more time as a family is another upside. “I get to spend more time with the children,” Diane says. “And last weekend we had the opportunity to look after a friend’s son for the weekend while she was giving birth. It was our children’s first time having a friend sleep over and made for a nice break from the isolation.”
When it comes to encouragement for other families, Diane says, “Hang in there. When kids run up during a web conference, I just remind myself that everyone else is in the same boat.”
Andrea: “We don’t always have to be doing something”
Life hasn’t really changed that much since the pandemic for Andrea Conter, her 21-year-old adopted son, and her two high-school-age foster boys. Unless you count the fact that Andrea isn’t working, her oldest son is now just working part-time, and the younger boys are schooling from home.
This is a family used to living with change, which is perhaps the reason they are taking the current situation in stride. Growing up in foster homes, the three boys are certainly familiar with frequent change – in homes, caregivers, schools, schedules. And Andrea, who became a mother just three years ago at the age of 52, has adapted to quite a bit of change in her life recently as well.
More change came a couple months later when Andrea got a call asking if she would foster two brothers on a temporary basis. Almost a year later, the two boys are still part of the family.
“Prior to COVID, we just did normal stuff – school, work, homework, gaming, friends,” says Andrea, who is a store manager at Burlington.
When COVID hit Alaska, that all changed. Instead of working full-time managing 80 employees, Andrea now completes several hours of virtual training each week and tries to keep her employees engaged over social media. Mitch’s work schedule was reduced to part-time, and he and Andrea share the grocery shopping responsibility. And the younger boys have transitioned to doing school from home.
“The biggest change is now we are all home all day. Things have been OK except for battling to get them to do homework,” Andrea notes.
All the ZOOM meetings and school emails are somewhat overwhelming, but Andrea says she likes to see the assignments and due dates and grades. She’s also been thrilled to see the change in her oldest foster son, who left a more stressful environment at one of the high schools geared for teens with behavioral issues. “He’s become much more engaged, and his stress and anxiety has dropped. I’ve watched him bloom,” Andrea says. “That’s been a win.”
A key to their success, Andrea feels, is being flexible with the family schedule. “I’m not too strict about schedules, but there are non-negotiables. Homework can be done at 2 a.m. but it has to be done. Same thing with chores. We have some structure in place, but there’s flexibility. Right now, it’s OK if there are a few things you let go.”
That flexibility, she has found, has opened the door to some important conversations with the boys that might not have happened otherwise. “If you’re too focused on structure and planning ‘family time,’ it can end up feeling forced. The biggest takeaway for me is we don’t always have to be doing something. We can just chill and allow conversations to naturally progress,” Andrea says.
While Andrea is missing the in-person interaction with her friends, employees and her volunteer work, she’s enjoying the time she has with her boys and their simpler lifestyle. “We were living in a go-go-go world,” she says. “I miss the engagement but realize that I don’t need it as much. I’m not going to require as much materially and socially after this is over.”
She hopes that will be true for others as well. “I’m seeing families together outside that I’ve never seen together before,” she says. “I hope that of all the things we take away from this, we keep that connection of family.”
In this time of COVID-19, with school closures and families isolating from others, building awareness of child abuse and neglect is more important than ever. This is an incredibly challenging time for all of us, underscoring the need and opportunity to build resilience in our children and in ourselves. We at Alaska Children’s Trust are here, dedicated to supporting Alaska’s children and families. Along with our partners, we are working to provide the resources, knowledge, skills and support Alaska’s families need to thrive, despite the circumstances.
April 1 marked the first day of National Child Abuse Prevention Month. And just as we are all pulling together to prevent the spread of COVID-19, we each must play a role in raising widespread awareness of child abuse and neglect, and what we can do to build resilience and make a positive difference in the lives of children and families around us.
For far too long, Alaska has had one of the highest rates, per capita, of child abuse and neglect. But there are many, many committed individuals and organizations working to change that – and we will succeed. Check out this inspiring map to see the partners across Alaska who are participating with us in Child Abuse Awareness Month.
The first step in any real change is awareness, and Child Abuse Awareness Month is our opportunity to be part of a coordinated, nationwide movement to do just that. Here’s how you can get involved:
Download and post our prevention month poster in your home, school, workplace or online to raise additional awareness. It’s available both as a jpeg and as a PDF.
Get involved in our virtual statewide Go Blue Day Rally on Friday, April 3! No matter where you live, please join us. Wear blue, make a sign, take a photo and post it using the hashtags #GoBlue4Kids #DareToBeTheOne. Make sure your post is public so Alaska Children’s Trust can share it too! It’s one small, positive and proactive way to show you care.
Explore our parent resources. We have compiled resources that can help with building relationships with your child, organizations that can help keep a child safe, and information we trust to support children’s healthy development.
While the important work of preventing child abuse and neglect and building resilience is ongoing, this dedicated month allows us to shine a spotlight on the issue, and educate and inspire others to join with us in our efforts.
We invite you to join us in raising the volume on this issue throughout April – and beyond. Alaska Children’s Trust is actively addressing this complex issue in a variety of ways, and we need and ask for your involvement as we work together for healthier children and families across Alaska. Together we can prevent child abuse and neglect.
Each year through our Champion for Kids Awards, we recognize individuals who have demonstrated dedication and commitment in working toward preventing child abuse and neglect, by ensuring that children are living in safe, supportive and nurturing communities.
2020 Northern/Interior Region Champion for Kids: Traci McGarry Traci has dedicated both her professional and personal life to preventing child abuse and neglect, and advocating for changes that improve the lives of Alaska’s children and families.
In her role as Child and Family Services/Child Advocacy Center director at Kawerak in Nome, Traci spends many hours working directly with families, assisting with court appearances, providing a safe and comfortable environment to ensure children are protected, and helping families return to a safe home situation.
Traci is also dedicated to seeking funding to improve and expand services offered to children and families in her community. Through grant applications and awards, Traci has grown her staff to include additional specialists to work with child victims of crime. She is currently seeking funding for a new and larger building to house the Child Advocacy Center, which was recommended for replacement in a recent facility assessment. The new building would help the center serve the growing number of children and families seeking assistance, which has grown from 59 in 2014 to 141 in 2019.
“Through her leadership, the Children and Family Services and Child Advocacy Center has increased staff and has increased services to our children in the region,” said Carol Piscoya, who nominated Traci for the award.
Outside of work, Traci still finds time to be an active advocate and member of the community, volunteering on many local and state committees, boards and commissions that focus on the safety of children and families. She is a volunteer DJ at the local KNOM radio station, a member of the local Rotary Club, secretary of the Alaska Children’s Alliance, and active with the Alaska Tribal Caucus group. She has also volunteered at the local elementary school and homeless shelter, serving as needed until positions could be filled by paid employees.
“Traci’s leadership skills are very strong, supportive and committed to our children,” Carol said.
2020 Northern/Interior Region Champion for Kids: Bernard Gatewood
It is said that one of the best ways to prevent child abuse and neglect is to find ways to address the cyclical nature of abuse. That is exactly what Bernard has focused on during his more than 30 years of working with Alaska’s children and families.
“Bernard’s 28 years with the Division of Juvenile Justice gave him the unique opportunity to counsel, educate and empower youth in the system,” wrote Taber Rehbaum in her nomination of Bernard for the award. “These youth were often victims of neglect and abuse themselves. Bernard’s efforts to provide them with the resources they needed to grow and develop positive outlets was a critical step towards healing and breaking that cycle.”
During his 15-year tenure as superintendent at Fairbanks Youth Facility, Bernard placed a premium on academic achievement and real-world skills, which could lead to a living-wage-paying job. Through diverse partnerships, Bernard led the development of an in-house culinary program, healthcare classes, automotive repair training, and a robotics program, among others. As a result, some residents became certified in first aid/CPR, others were certified as road crew flaggers and emergency fire fighters, and others earned high school diplomas or GEDs.
Bernard, known for his skills in securing necessary capital for projects, was also tireless in his work to obtain funding for various projects that would positively impact the residents. Examples included construction of a full gymnasium and building of a fence that allowed all residents – regardless of their security status – to work in the garden, growing flowers and vegetables, many of which were donated to the local food bank.
In addition to his career in juvenile justice, Bernard served on the Fairbanks North Star Borough Health and Social Services Commission, was elected to the Fairbanks City Council, and was co-founder of the Black Role Model Initiative.
“Bernard has proven himself as a community leader in Fairbanks and across the state,” Taber said.
Alaska Children’s Trust is pleased to welcome two new members to our board of directors: Mary Peltola of Bethel and Crystal Mitchell of Anchorage.
Mary Sattler Peltola, Akalleq, is Yupik Eskimo and was raised on the Kuskokwim River in Kwethluk, Tuntutuliak, Platinum and Bethel. Mary’s mother, Picigaq or Elizabeth (Andrew) Williams is from the village of Kwethluk and worked for Medical Records in Bethel and Anchorage. Mary’s father was a teacher/principal, commercial pilot and flight instructor, trapper, commercial fisherman and recreational dog musher, and raised his family doing all those activities. Since 2017, Mary has served as the executive director of the Kuskokwim River Inter-Tribal Fish Commission, a consortium of 33 federally recognized tribes based in Bethel. Previously, Mary was a state lobbyist, and worked for the Donlin Gold project as an outreach and community development manager. Mary served five terms (1999 – 2009) in the Alaska State House of Representatives serving the Bethel area (and Bristol Bay/Nushagak villages from 1999 – 2003). Mary is married to Gene Peltola, Jr. and together they have seven children, aged 22 – 12. Her hobbies include fishing, hunting and traveling.
Crystal Manning Mitchell was born in Louisiana of Choctaw Tribal Affiliation and moved to Alaska in early 2016 with her husband and daughter. “I fell in love with Alaska and all that it has to offer as well as the rich cultural milieu that made me and my family feel at home,” she said. Currently, Crystal is the director of the emergency department at Alaska Native Medical Center and serves on many committees that directly involve family and children. She has worked in rural Alaska and understands the complexities and challenges that every Alaskan faces daily and she hopes to contribute to improved outcomes. “I have always had a passion for children through advocacy and even more so we recently became a foster family for a child that will forever have a place in our hearts,” she said. “I truly believe that by serving on the board of directors with the Alaska Children’s Trust, we can change the future for positive outcomes for our children and families across our wonderful state.”
Alaska Children's Trust honored our 2020 Southeast Champions for Kids, Kevin Ritchie and Kyle Worl, at an awards reception in Juneau on January 29. Each year, we recognize individuals that have demonstrated dedication and commitment in working toward preventing child abuse and neglect, by ensuring that children are living in safe, supportive and nurturing communities.
Alaska Children’s Trust was established in 1988 with the goal of preventing child abuse and neglect throughout Alaska. As a registered 501C3 nonprofit organization, we accept charitable gifts to support our mission to strengthen families so all Alaskan children have the tools and resources necessary to make their dreams come true.